The costs of trans visibility

The costs of trans visibility

Yesterday, Dylan Mulvaney broke her silence: https://www.tiktok.com/@dylanmulvaney/vi....

For context, this is a trans influencer who built a 10 million strong following on TikTok. She took a brand deal with budweiser to post an ad on an instagram, and the anti-trans right went absolutely ballistic, calling for a boycott, condemning the company, and to some perhaps unknowable degree it influenced that Budweiser sales dropped by a 1/4 and

. Dylan speaks more personally about the effect of the hatred on her.

What strikes me about this story is that it is just about visibility. This isn't inclusion in sports or gender-affirming care for minors, it was just that a trans person was visible. This wasn't even visibility in a TV commerical that a poor right-winger is forced to see, it was an ad on her own instagram page. We're all in our own social media algorithm influenced bubbles, but from my vantage point it really has seemed that in the last year or so things have just gotten worse for trans people and the backlash to even minor visibility is growing.

We need to do better.

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by sublime P

every teenage suicide (or murder) is tragic. do you not debate any of those?

as for your second question, i really don't have a good answer. i can comprehend a man saying he is actually a woman or vice versa but i can't comprehend someone saying they are neither. im not trying to be difficult, just more or less saying it's a habit to refer to someone as he/she. should i say they? i guess that's probably right.

more or less i am on board with

If a normal hetero white boy kills himself they don't give a ****. That's reality. Many of them (not saying that's true for forum posters but certainly for many radical leftists) would actually be happy because one less privileged oppressor is around in society.

That's how they talk, that's how they act, that's how they live.


by spaceman Bryce P

It’s impossible to “adopt a trans identity” you either are trans or not.

hrm. so you are either trans or not in a binary sense?


by Luciom P

If a normal hetero white boy kills himself they don't give a ****. That's reality. Many of them (not saying that's true for forum posters but certainly for many radical leftists) would actually be happy because one less privileged oppressor is around in society.

That's how they talk, that's how they act, that's how they live.

Leftists tend to hate anything that has an image of being strong, good and successful. They hate America, they hate Western civilization, they hate white males, they hate rationality. The reasons that leftists give for hating the West, etc. clearly do not correspond with their real motives. They SAY they hate the West because it is warlike, imperialistic, sexist, ethnocentric and so forth, but where these same faults appear in socialist countries or in primitive cultures, the leftist finds excuses for them, or at best he GRUDGINGLY admits that they exist; whereas he ENTHUSIASTICALLY points out (and often greatly exaggerates) these faults where they appear in Western civilization. Thus it is clear that these faults are not the leftist’s real motive for hating America and the West. He hates America and the West because they are strong and successful.


by Luciom P

If it's depression, gender identity doesn't matter much.

What about schizophrenia? Various behavioral disorders?

If you can't use gender identification as one of the severe symptoms of something being really wrong with that kid, because pseudo religious thinking forces you violently to NEVER doubt teenagers self identifications, never use that as a signal something might be wrong, you are very limited as a treating physician.

What if self iden

This is just really nonsensical to anyone who's ever worked with a patient in a mental health setting. There's nothing about what you wrote that actually matches how evaluations take place.


by Luciom P

I think some people ITT should apologize to me


Why? I mean, you made up some nonsense about me suggesting "you are supposed to always defer to [experts'] decision or you are a fascist.", and when I pointed that out, I got nothing but crickets.


by Bobo Fett P

Why? I mean, you made up some nonsense about me suggesting "you are supposed to always defer to [experts'] decision or you are a fascist.", and when I pointed that out, I got nothing but crickets.

What's the nonsense? I might not have been correct in saying you said or implied that, but certainly that's a very strong position of many people on the left.

Anyway about Nex death, some psycho people claimed that any attempt to deny the obviously ridiculous narrative that wanted to imply the bathroom use legislation caused that death, was akin to justify that death jfc


by ganstaman P

This is just really nonsensical to anyone who's ever worked with a patient in a mental health setting. There's nothing about what you wrote that actually matches how evaluations take place.

Except that's literally what experts say happened at tavistock


by Luciom P

What's the nonsense? I might not have been correct in saying you said or implied that


That's the nonsense, of course. And there is no "might not" involved.


by Bobo Fett P

That's the nonsense, of course. And there is no "might not" involved.

You said experts opinions are basically always to be prefered to democratic preferences.

That's such an antidemocratic stance that basically destroys every notion of voters having a right to decide about outcomes in society, that the only normal way to frame that is a deep hatred for the demos , because trusting the people would bring about fascism (which is the basic dictatorship of the majority)


by Luciom P

You said experts opinions are basically always to be prefered to democratic preferences.

That's such an antidemocratic stance that basically destroys every notion of voters having a right to decide about outcomes in society, that the only normal way to frame that is a deep hatred for the demos , because trusting the people would bring about fascism (which is the basic dictatorship of the majority)


LOL, amazing. You probably should've just stuck with ignoring me. Are you actually trying to use this inaccuracy-filled pretzel reasoning to carry on with the idea that I suggested people are fascists for not listening to experts? That's...quite something.

It seems like Gender Queer has really had an impact on you. Ever since that discussion started, your posting has been more and more full of nonsense like this.


by Luciom P

Except that's literally what experts say happened at tavistock

That's misleading. The Tavistock Clinic existed to address gender issues, so that really was all they were looking for. Because they were so overwhelmed, they seemed to stop the evaluation at that point and missed other issues that warranted referrals. They also seemed to attribute some symptoms to distress from gender identity instead of distress from other disorders.

What didn't happen, as far as I can tell and wouldn't make sense, is what you suggested: a clinician felt a patient didn't meet criteria for disorder X but would have given the diagnosis X had they felt the patient was wrong about their stated trans identity. Literally no one is missing out on a diagnosis of schizophrenia, as you suggest, due to a clinician accepting a patient's gender identity instead of considering it a symptom itself.


by ganstaman P

That's misleading. The Tavistock Clinic existed to address gender issues, so that really was all they were looking for. Because they were so overwhelmed, they seemed to stop the evaluation at that point and missed other issues that warranted referrals. They also seemed to attribute some symptoms to distress from gender identity instead of distress from other disorders.

What didn't happen, as far as I can tell and wouldn't make sense, is what

But would you accept that a patient's presenting with a trans identity could potentially be a sign of another issue? For example, being a victim of abuse, being caught up in a social contagion, struggling with homosexual feelings that are not accepted by their family, and so on?


by sublime P

Leftists tend to hate anything that has an image of being strong, good and successful. They hate America, they hate Western civilization, they hate white males, they hate rationality. The reasons that leftists give for hating the West, etc. clearly do not correspond with their real motives. They SAY they hate the West because it is warlike, imperialistic, sexist, ethnocentric and so forth, but where these same faults appear in socialist cou

What a wild fantasy you have created for yourself

Btw, everything isn't "left" and "right". I'm sure it helps simplify things down to "extreme leftist" and what not. Treating other humans like humans isn't intrinsically a leftist ideal.


by Jackontheturn P

But would you accept that a patient's presenting with a trans identity could potentially be a sign of another issue? For example, being a victim of abuse, being caught up in a social contagion, struggling with homosexual feelings that are not accepted by their family, and so on?

Iirc this question has been asked to gangsta at various points and I don't think he's ever answered it... Maybe I'm wrong there.


by Jackontheturn P

But would you accept that a patient's presenting with a trans identity could potentially be a sign of another issue? For example, being a victim of abuse, being caught up in a social contagion, struggling with homosexual feelings that are not accepted by their family, and so on?

Yes.

by Luckbox Inc P

Iirc this question has been asked to gangsta at various points and I don't think he's ever answered it... Maybe I'm wrong there.

You have this exactly wrong.


by ganstaman P

Yes.

You have this exactly wrong.

First time for everything.


by Luckbox Inc P

First time for everything.


First AND second...in the same post!

by Luckbox Inc P

Iirc this question has been asked to gangsta at various points and I don't think he's ever answered it... Maybe I'm wrong there.


😃


by ganstaman P

Because they were so overwhelmed, they seemed to stop the evaluation at that point and missed other issues that warranted referrals.

This narrative is extremely misleading. The Cass report and other whistle-blowers make clear that staff were put under pressure to adopt a gender affirming model due to ideological capture.

The volume of referrals might have exacerbated the problem of ideological capture, but it was not the cause of poor practice or the reason it was shut down.


by sublime P

hrm. so you are either trans or not in a binary sense?

yes.


by spaceman Bryce P

It’s impossible to “adopt a trans identity” you either are trans or not.

Is one gender a core aspect of the self for each person? Because presumably that’s what you mean, right? That the transitioned to gender is a core aspect of self for the trans person.

If so, do you agree it would follow that we should expect ~ 50% of the population to be trans?

Do you believe 50% of the population is trans?


by craig1120 P

Is one gender a core aspect of the self for each person? Because presumably that’s what you mean, right? That the transitioned to gender is a core aspect of self for the trans person.

If so, do you agree it would follow that we should expect ~ 50% of the population to be trans?

Do you believe 50% of the population is trans?

You lost me on the 50% thing. Could you elaborate on that?

A transgender person by definition is someone whose biological sex (ie male or female with rare exceptions) is different than the gender(man or woman) that they perceive themselves to be. This does not occur anywhere near 50% of the time. And it doesn't involve a "transitioned to" gender. There is the gender they already identify as their self that doesn't match their biological sex.

So I don't follow where your 50% is coming from.


by Elrazor P

This narrative is extremely misleading. The Cass report and other whistle-blowers make clear that staff were put under pressure to adopt a gender affirming model due to ideological capture.

The volume of referrals might have exacerbated the problem of ideological capture, but it was not the cause of poor practice or the reason it was shut down.

They were specifically instructed to disregard the possibility of wrong self identification


I think the pertinent question is how often someone shows up at a gender clinic and gets a diagnosis of "we're not sure you're really transgender."

For example, if a patient presents as transgender, having had no gender identity issues until a few months ago when their parents got divorced and they moved to a new town and started spending most of their time online. It would seem that the sensible thing to do would be to help the patient process the trauma going on in their life and put gender issues on the back burner. But does this ever happen in real life?


Let's this how this goes

Over a dozen female athletes are suing the National Collegiate Athletics Association for letting transgender athletes compete against them and use female locker rooms in college sports.

At the center of the class-action lawsuit is Lia Thomas, the trans athlete who dominated the 2022 NCAA Swimming Championships while a student at the University of Pennsylvania. The suit states that both the NCAA and Georgia Tech, which hosted the event, knowingly violated Title IX, the federal statute that guarantees equal opportunity for men and women in college education and sports.

The lawsuit, the first federal action of its kind, seeks to change the rules, rendering any biological males ineligible to compete against female athletes. It demands the NCAA revoke all awards given to trans athletes in women’s competitions and “reassign” them to their female contenders. It also asks for “damages for pain and suffering, mental and emotional distress, suffering and anxiety, expense costs and other damages due to defendants’ wrongful conduct.”

https://www.thefp.com/p/exclusive-female...


It will be interesting to see how this plays out and how the NCAA botches the litigation or if the case will failing on some technica/procedural grounds. It reminds me of the class action lawsuit about CBT that was brought a few years back in which most college football players and athletes refused to participate in the settlement.


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