The costs of trans visibility

The costs of trans visibility

Yesterday, Dylan Mulvaney broke her silence: https://www.tiktok.com/@dylanmulvaney/vi....

For context, this is a trans influencer who built a 10 million strong following on TikTok. She took a brand deal with budweiser to post an ad on an instagram, and the anti-trans right went absolutely ballistic, calling for a boycott, condemning the company, and to some perhaps unknowable degree it influenced that Budweiser sales dropped by a 1/4 and

. Dylan speaks more personally about the effect of the hatred on her.

What strikes me about this story is that it is just about visibility. This isn't inclusion in sports or gender-affirming care for minors, it was just that a trans person was visible. This wasn't even visibility in a TV commerical that a poor right-winger is forced to see, it was an ad on her own instagram page. We're all in our own social media algorithm influenced bubbles, but from my vantage point it really has seemed that in the last year or so things have just gotten worse for trans people and the backlash to even minor visibility is growing.

We need to do better.

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30 June 2023 at 04:48 PM
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by Didace P

So, if we just called trans women women, we wouldn't say trans women are women?

"So, if we just called tall women women, we wouldn't say tall women are women?"


by Luciom P

Speaking of women , democrats want to draft them

https://www.wfla.com/news/politics/fires...

It's ridiculous that they haven't had to since whenever women were allowed to join the army.


by Didace P

So, if we just called trans women women, we wouldn't say trans women are women?

yes?
😵


by Trolly McTrollson P

"So, if we just called tall women women, we wouldn't say tall women are women?"


Such a dishonest poster

by spaceman Bryce P

yes?
😵

Why do you call trans women women? I believe your answer is "because they are women", right? But that is avoiding the debate by declaring your definition to be absolutely correct with no discussion needed. Others disagree.


I think Bruce unlike uke and gangsta is deeper in the hole and so actually believe there is no biological sex basis upon which to apply gender


by Didace P

Such a dishonest poster

Man, it's not my fault your argument falls apart immediately.


by Didace P

Such a dishonest poster
Why do you call trans women women? I believe your answer is "because they are women", right? But that is avoiding the debate by declaring your definition to be absolutely correct with no discussion needed. Others disagree.

Didace, from my perspective I spent hundreds of posts carefully laying out why trans women are women in a very measured and careful way that builds the case from the ground up including scientific studies, data, empirical reasoning, the history of the debate and the scientific landscape of it. A lot of my posts are very very good and very insightful. I dont really see a debate going on, and of course its -ev for me to engage, especially when im here to play cards.

I dont see a lot of “debate” going on, what I see is an emerging consensus amongst 4 individuals to ignore logic and reason, marginalize all disagreeing parties and politely handshake on “ the obvious truth” in their minds that transgender people suffer some mental disability , arent really the gender they claim , and are more or less a fad that could be seductive to the youth.


by Luciom P

I think Bruce unlike uke and gangsta is deeper in the hole and so actually believe there is no biological sex basis upon which to apply gender

gender has never been based on biology at any point in history.


by Trolly McTrollson P

Man, it's not my fault your argument falls apart immediately.

It is your fault that you are intentional obtuse so you can make your witty one-liners and giggle to yourself.

by spaceman Bryce P

I dont see a lot of “debate” going on,

If there is no debate, why is this an issue at all? It's in the news all the time.


by Didace P

It is your fault that you are intentional obtuse so you can make your witty one-liners and giggle to yourself.
If there is no debate, why is this an issue at all? It's in the news all the time.

I meant in regards to this forum obviously.


I'm pretty sure there is a debate here, as well.


by spaceman Bryce P

gender has never been based on biology at any point in history.

Lol, having tits or not has never been the basis for nursing a baby sure


by Didace P

It is your fault that you are intentional obtuse so you can make your witty one-liners and giggle to yourself.

I'm not obtuse, your point was just so incredibly stupid that it didn't take more than one line to teat it apart. I'm glad you find my posts witty though, I sure don't.


Instead claiming that biological sex never was the basis of gender is not redicolous beyond belief I guess mctroll


Under distress, you can either build on your identity — make it more powerful / meaningful — or you can transcend your identity for a new one.

The trans person is rightfully exploring the latter but it’s a half measure. They are detaching from their gender social identity when truth calls you to transcend the social self in its entirety, which means you have to reach deeper into yourself.

When the half measure inevitably leaves more to be desired, many trans people revert back to trying to build a more powerful identity. This leads to mobilization and activism in the political space. Again, acting through the social self instead of transcending it.


by spaceman Bryce P

Didace, from my perspective I spent hundreds of posts carefully laying out why trans women are women in a very measured and careful way that builds the case from the ground up including scientific studies, data, empirical reasoning, the history of the debate and the scientific landscape of it. A lot of my posts are very very good and very insightful. I dont really see a debate going on, and of course its -ev for me to engage, especially wh

You thinking that this transgender issue can be resolved using logic and reason just shows how confused / ill equipped you are about this topic.


by Trolly McTrollson P

I'm not obtuse, your point was just so incredibly stupid that it didn't take more than one line to teat it apart. I'm glad you find my posts witty though, I sure don't.

Oh, I don't find them witty. I thought it was self-evident that you did. Otherwise, why?

And what point do you think I was trying to make? Hint: It wasn't about who is a woman.


by craig1120 P

You thinking that this transgender issue can be resolved using logic and reason just shows how confused / ill equipped you are about this topic.

Especially when he thinks non-radical leftists give any value to radical leftists publishing papers reviewed by other radical leftists in fields invented by radical leftists to hire radical leftists that went to radical leftist colleges that otherwise would have no other job prospect.


To refresh, the claim made by some in this thread is that the trans person has an innate connection to their “true” gender. True gender is used to signify a unique quality of gender identity: it’s a fundamental, fixed identity that cannot be transcended.

Is our deepest identity one gender and not the other? Or is the gender identity transitioned to able to be transcended as shown by detransitioners?

In order to defend this claim about true gender, it must hold that all detransitioners were illegitimate, which means they don’t have this special, inerrant, innate connection to their true gender like the real trans do.

Or do detransitioners not have a true gender? Do non binary people not have a true gender? So many unanswered questions for our so called gender experts..


all these linguistic "debates" about trans people are tiresome. Like, who cares? Noting that trans people exist is just observational about human behaviours. Our choice is whether to be *******s or not in how we treat these people. All this wordplay of "do detransitioners not have a true gender" like ffs who cares.


by uke_master P

all these linguistic "debates" about trans people are tiresome. Like, who cares? Noting that trans people exist is just observational about human behaviours. Our choice is whether to be *******s or not in how we treat these people. All this wordplay of "do detransitioners not have a true gender" like ffs who cares.

It matters because non solutions delay actual solutions. Gender affirmation and reforming societal norms in favor of trans acceptance doesn’t solve suicidal ideation.

Advocates who have made the meaning they derive from their advocacy the highest moral truth - they don’t care. They just assume suicidal ideation is healed by their advocacy so that they can continue to leech off the meaning.


by uke_master P

all these linguistic "debates" about trans people are tiresome. Like, who cares? Noting that trans people exist is just observational about human behaviours. Our choice is whether to be *******s or not in how we treat these people. All this wordplay of "do detransitioners not have a true gender" like ffs who cares.

As i already stated it matters when you guys want the label to have legal meaning , a meaning that binds third parties to a behaviour under threat of state violence if they don't comply.

You can call me a sinner and I wouldn't gaf because it has no legal effects


by uke_master P

all these linguistic "debates" about trans people are tiresome. Like, who cares?

So are you just going to roll with it from now on and not correct anyone who uses terms you don't agree with?


by craig1120 P

To refresh, the claim made by some in this thread is that the trans person has an innate connection to their “true” gender. True gender is used to signify a unique quality of gender identity: it’s a fundamental, fixed identity that cannot be transcended.

Is our deepest identity one gender and not the other? Or is the gender identity transitioned to able to be transcended as shown by detransitioners?

In order to defend this claim about true g

WTF is "transcending your gender" supposed to mean?


by Didace P

So are you just going to roll with it from now on and not correct anyone who uses terms you don't agree with?

Not the same. I think people should generally be respectful and use established terms correctly like not misgendering trans people. This is different from finding the silly philosophy 100 style what is a woman faux debates tiresome.


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