The costs of trans visibility

The costs of trans visibility

Yesterday, Dylan Mulvaney broke her silence: https://www.tiktok.com/@dylanmulvaney/vi....

For context, this is a trans influencer who built a 10 million strong following on TikTok. She took a brand deal with budweiser to post an ad on an instagram, and the anti-trans right went absolutely ballistic, calling for a boycott, condemning the company, and to some perhaps unknowable degree it influenced that Budweiser sales dropped by a 1/4 and

. Dylan speaks more personally about the effect of the hatred on her.

What strikes me about this story is that it is just about visibility. This isn't inclusion in sports or gender-affirming care for minors, it was just that a trans person was visible. This wasn't even visibility in a TV commerical that a poor right-winger is forced to see, it was an ad on her own instagram page. We're all in our own social media algorithm influenced bubbles, but from my vantage point it really has seemed that in the last year or so things have just gotten worse for trans people and the backlash to even minor visibility is growing.

We need to do better.

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by Luciom P

If true, this incentives people who want free surgery to commit medium level crimes just to get 6-12-18 months in jail and free procedures

immigration detainees not criminals

but the key is, non citizens who the state did not trust to be unwatched while they decide what their fates will be


by rickroll P

immigration detainees not criminals

but the key is, non citizens who the state did not trust to be unwatched while they decide what their fates will be

Ye so you are a biological man who wants to live as a woman, you illegal enter the USA and get free surgery. Great plan


USA USA USA USA USA USA


by checkraisdraw P

I mean, certainly for common procedures people probably all get the same standard of care in Canada, but I know for a fact that there are people that are able to afford cutting all types of red tape and accessing cutting edge procedures by flying to another country like the US where they can get all sorts of treatments a normal Canadian doesn't have access to. Secondly, it also allows for there to be innovation in the sense that some surgeo

I'm not proposing any new standard. I don't know the minutia of how prison systems choose things like hospital networks or the flexibility in choosing specialists for prisoners with various medical issues. I'd guess it's pretty shitty deal for prisoners and that US for-profit prison systems working with US for-profit healthcare systems probably find a way to **** it up. Nevertheless, my basic view here is just that it is the state's responsibility to provide healthcare and that doesn't go away when someone is trans and has medical issues related to being trans. Presumably the overwhelming majority of that is going to be hormone therapies and counselling and the like, but I don't see any a priori reason that surgeries (on adults) should never be considered when the consensus of the medical team and patient is that this is the best medical course of action.

Somehow in Canada this seems easier to adjudicate, just give them the same access to the healthcare system that everyone gets in Canada (obviously not including medical tourism).


Its baffling the trans issue is such a big issue given all of the legitimate problems our country faces right now. I think Tucker said it best during his interview on the All In Pod (paraphrasing) that as our problems have gotten more insurmountable we have distracted ourselves by caring about these fringe issues that only affect a tiny number of people and really dont matter overall.

Trans is clearly the new medical scam now that pain clinics can no longer pump oxys to people, so now they target a new mental health issue to the tune of what, 20 billion a year in elective medical care that tries to get them as young as possible because then they have a customer for life. Are there some legitimate cases of trans, sure, I'll concede that I guess. But if you were born with xx chromosomes then youre a woman, xy then a man. The only people who claim trans should have some abnormality of their chromosomal pairs like xxy or w/e those very rare cases are.

The rule should be simple, once you're 18 you can have at it if you want. But until then, NO. And no you cannot transition so you can be placed in a womans prison. They can compete in a trans category for sports or what their chromosomes are if they want to compete in the mens/womens divisions.

To the LGB people , does it not piss you off that your movement has been hijacked by the T's and Q+? Just seems so far from the original mission of your movement, but maybe Ive got a bad read on the situation.


by The Standard Station P

Its baffling the trans issue is such a big issue given all of the legitimate problems our country faces right now. I think Tucker said it best during his interview on the All In Pod (paraphrasing) that as our problems have gotten more insurmountable we have distracted ourselves by caring about these fringe issues that only affect a tiny number of people and really dont matter overall.

Trans is clearly the new medical scam now that pain clin

I have no idea why right wing media is so obsessed with trans issues and regularly people come here spewing anti-trans talking points when - as you suggest - there are so many more important issues you could have given a soliloquy on.

Yet here you are.


by The Standard Station P

Its baffling the trans issue is such a big issue given all of the legitimate problems our country faces right now. I think Tucker said it best during his interview on the All In Pod (paraphrasing) that as our problems have gotten more insurmountable we have distracted ourselves by caring about these fringe issues that only affect a tiny number of people and really dont matter overall.

Trans is clearly the new medical scam now that pain clin

What a whiplash.

From "We are distracted by these non issues" to "Transism is clearly a medical scam to suppliment the oxy crackdown" in the moment of a line break.

Sounds like you are victim to the propaganda that makes you care a whole lot about something you shouldn't care about at all

You've got an awful read on read on the situation. Normal people don't get pissed off because a marginalized group is receiving social reform. That is how improvements get made.

I dunno, you pretend to "get it" then spew a bunch of awful / ignorant takes like a typical right wing chud


I'd never met any trans people until a couple of years ago-- both FTMs-- one who seemed fairly normal and adjusted and another with all sorts of issues who was sexually abused as a kid and hated herself. She's gone back to being a she and using her birth name now.

Another girl I know is a middle school guidance counselor in a small town in rural Missouri. She never had any trans students before and now she has three.


by uke_master P

I have no idea why right wing media is so obsessed with trans issues and regularly people come here spewing anti-trans talking points when - as you suggest - there are so many more important issues you could have given a soliloquy on.

Yet here you are.

Because we think we can win on that (ie, polls are on the right side of those issues) and after you win on that you can generalize to other stuff.

Same as the left is obsessed with abortion. They can win on that, polls are clear, so they talk about it 24/7 even if it's insane to consider abortion as a top20 priority. But it works for them so they are smart to do that.


by Luciom P

Because we think we can win on that (ie, polls are on the right side of those issues) and after you win on that you can generalize to other stuff.

Same as the left is obsessed with abortion. They can win on that, polls are clear, so they talk about it 24/7 even if it's insane to consider abortion as a top20 priority. But it works for them so they are smart to do that.

Female bodily autonomy is absolutely a top 20 priority for >50% of the population.

Its probably a top 5 priority for >50% of the population


by coordi P

Female bodily autonomy is absolutely a top 20 priority for >50% of the population.

Its probably a top 5 priority for >50% of the population

Why do you translate abortion with "female bodily autonomy"? quite an orwellian semantic shenanigan. Only one state has legal prostitution lol, and i don't see the other 49 ones clamoring for it.


luciom, abortion is the #1 issue for a lot of people

i agree there's other issues such as famine/murder/unemployment/genocide to worry about but those are in the "what if" post apocalyptic scenarios we don't need to deal with so abortion is the most hardcore and visceral thing to deal with


there's also massive social factors at play, there's been a lot of studies that have linked the drop in crime rates in the united states with abortion as unwanted children will not grow up in stable families and then be more apt to grow up to become criminals


by Luciom P

Why do you translate abortion with "female bodily autonomy"? quite an orwellian semantic shenanigan. Only one state has legal prostitution lol, and i don't see the other 49 ones clamoring for it.

Prostitution is legal in 50 states under the guise of escorts / sugar babies.

Abortion is a bodily autonomy issue. There is no semantics or shenanigans. Like if vasectomies were to become illegal. Or if men weren't allowed to have tumors removed


by rickroll P

luciom, abortion is the #1 issue for a lot of people

i agree there's other issues such as famine/murder/unemployment/genocide to worry about but those are in the "what if" post apocalyptic scenarios we don't need to deal with so abortion is the most hardcore and visceral thing to deal with


there's also massive social factors at play, there's been a lot of studies that have linked the drop in crime rates in the united states with abortion as u

I don't think it is, and you will see it in Florida in november, with quite more people voting in favor of abortion in their proposition about it (or whatever they call a prop in florida) vs how many of them will vote republican in the senate where Rick Scott is up again for election.

Rick scott confirmed a judge (ACB) that voted to reverse roe v wade and intends to do so again in the future if given the opportunity. If abortion was that #1 issue you woulnd't get a large gap between the 2 votes , ie her opponent would crush him with the same margin the abortion prop will win with (could still not pass the 60% threshold, but that's another topic).

People might talk about abortion at all but check voting records when you have that kind of differentiated sample


by coordi P

Prostitution is legal in 50 states under the guise of escorts / sugar babies.

Abortion is a bodily autonomy issue. There is no semantics or shenanigans. Like if vasectomies were to become illegal. Or if men weren't allowed to have tumors removed

Abortion is 1 of hundreds of bodily autonomy issues (up to a point) and it's also a call on when a fetus (if ever) is a person.

But it's semantics , a rhetorical device, a synecdoche which hides the fact that those people don't care about "female body autonomy" in general almost ever, they care about one very specific and extremely limited in appication body autonomy topic.


i've been meaning to watch this actually


by Luciom P

Abortion is 1 of hundreds of bodily autonomy issues (up to a point) and it's also a call on when a fetus (if ever) is a person.

But it's semantics , a rhetorical device, a synecdoche which hides the fact that those people don't care about "female body autonomy" in general almost ever, they care about one very specific and extremely limited in appication body autonomy topic.

I can't think of any other female rights that were reduced or removed for them to care about like abortion

I think your second sentence is something you tell yourself so you can feel superior to people who care about abortion


by coordi P

I can't think of any other female rights that were reduced or removed for them to care about like abortion

I think your second sentence is something you tell yourself so you can feel superior to people who care about abortion

I do care about free abortion (in the first trimester) with the proper priority , and with that about freedom (for women and men) more generally.

But i am really really really sure that my daughter would live better in say a country with ho hate speech laws and hard-to-get abortion, than in a country with a lot of state censorship, but easy access to abortion. And 30-40 topics like that.

ALSO BECAUSE, in dire cases, you take a ****ing plane to get a pill in a country (or state in the USA case) where it's legal. Abortion is something that you won't necessarily need all life long, and will need, if any, at most once or twice in your life.

And you get elsewhere.

So pragmatically it cannot matter more than the quality of your neighboorhood, inflation, censorship, or anything else that applies to your quality of life day in and day out.

If the WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN is you have to pay 1k or 2k and go to the beach in a foreign country for a weekend to take a pill to abort, how weird in your head do you need to be to consider it a priority ? just being taxed 1k less over 60k of income pays for that, in one year or two.


by coordi P

Prostitution is legal in 50 states under the guise of escorts / sugar babies.

Abortion is a bodily autonomy issue. There is no semantics or shenanigans. Like if vasectomies were to become illegal. Or if men weren't allowed to have tumors removed

But there's a glaring difference between getting an abortion and getting a vasectomy. I think you can infer what that is.


by Gregory Illinivich P

But there's a glaring difference between getting an abortion and getting a vasectomy. I think you can infer what that is.

Maybe you can infer how this difference makes it problematic for old white dudes to legislate away female bodily autonomy and why it’s such a hot issue for many


Every aborted fetus had a father


by coordi P

Maybe you can infer how this difference makes it problematic for old white dudes to legislate away female bodily autonomy and why it’s such a hot issue for many

See, you're framing abortion as essentially "female bodily autonomy." Bodily autonomy is an aspect of it. Pro-choicers regard that as paramount and pro-lifers regard the life of the embryo/fetus as paramount. Don't get me wrong, conservatives also use language to elevate their positions.

If it's problematic for old white dudes to legislate in favor of one side of the issue, then it's problematic for them to legislate the other. They either have a say or they don't. There are plenty of pro-life women and minorities out there as well who I'm sure are happy to have their support.


by Luciom P

Every aborted fetus had a father

Yes, and every father can pump out as many babies in a day as their body could possibly allow which is the cornerstone of the asymmetry driving the debate and why women tend to get preferential treatment during conflicts involving children

by Gregory Illinivich P

See, you're framing abortion as essentially "female bodily autonomy." Bodily autonomy is an aspect of it. Pro-choicers regard that as paramount and pro-lifers regard the life of the embryo/fetus as paramount. Don't get me wrong, conservatives also use language to elevate their positions.

If it's problematic for old white dudes to legislate in favor of one side of the issue, then it's problematic for them to legislate the other. They either h

Forcing a woman, who is saying "I can barely take care of myself how could I possibly take care of a child, to carry to term, then refusing to help feed, clothe, or house said baby doesn't exactly help the pro-life argument. They will go to ****ing war for the embryo then its thoughts and prayers for the child


by rickroll P

because the reason for disclosure of being trans is not simply due to fertility - you know this as well but you're instead treating this like some game


may i suggest this one, it seems like it'd be up your alley

The conversation was SPECIFICALLY about trans people disclosing not being able to have children. Do you know how to read? You seem to have a major problem interpreting the things I say even though nobody else here seems to have that problem.


by master3004 P

The conversation was SPECIFICALLY about trans people disclosing not being able to have children. Do you know how to read? You seem to have a major problem interpreting the things I say even though nobody else here seems to have that problem.

this is one of the worst cases of bad faith arguing i've ever seen, i suggest you back to that game i suggested above

or maybe you'd like this one perhaps



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