The costs of trans visibility

The costs of trans visibility

Yesterday, Dylan Mulvaney broke her silence: https://www.tiktok.com/@dylanmulvaney/vi....

For context, this is a trans influencer who built a 10 million strong following on TikTok. She took a brand deal with budweiser to post an ad on an instagram, and the anti-trans right went absolutely ballistic, calling for a boycott, condemning the company, and to some perhaps unknowable degree it influenced that Budweiser sales dropped by a 1/4 and

. Dylan speaks more personally about the effect of the hatred on her.

What strikes me about this story is that it is just about visibility. This isn't inclusion in sports or gender-affirming care for minors, it was just that a trans person was visible. This wasn't even visibility in a TV commerical that a poor right-winger is forced to see, it was an ad on her own instagram page. We're all in our own social media algorithm influenced bubbles, but from my vantage point it really has seemed that in the last year or so things have just gotten worse for trans people and the backlash to even minor visibility is growing.

We need to do better.

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30 June 2023 at 04:48 PM
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by uke_master P

Enough of these silly games. Obviously calling it "mutilation" is trying to evoke a certain sharply negative connotation.

Then I suggest we stop with "gender affirming care" as that is equally trying to evoke a certain connotation.

I am now prepared for you to tell me that's different, thus showcasing one of rickroll's points.


by Didace P

Or is it just a roll you are playing.

Yeah, I am playing a nine.


I see what you did their.


by Didace P

Then I suggest we stop with "gender affirming care" as that is equally trying to evoke a certain connotation.

That's the standard, medically accepted term. It's not at all loaded language on par with calling a normal medical procedure a "mutilation."


by Didace P

Then I suggest we stop with "gender affirming care" as that is equally trying to evoke a certain connotation.

From what has been discussed here, gender affirming care can be broken down into the following categories:

1. Social transition/support therapy
2. Puberty blockers
3. Hormone treatment
4. Surgical care.

I assume from his posts that Luciom is against the govt, his insurer and insurance companies in general paying for 2,3, and 4, but he can speak for himself. Why he thinks these treatments should be treated differently than other procedures deemed medically necessary by the medical professions has yet to be explained.


by Didace P

Then I suggest we stop with "gender affirming care" as that is equally trying to evoke a certain connotation.

I am now prepared for you to tell me that's different, thus showcasing one of rickroll's points.

I don't think people would have issues calling gender affirming surgery 'genital mutilation' if the medical term were genital mutilation instead of gender affirming surgery

Though I am still quite fond of the word ******ed and we can't really say that in public anymore


by Luciom P

Are you in favour of taxpayer paid liposuction for fat people who are so because of reasons out of their control (however defined in a way that satisfies you with the idea that they couldn't avoid being fat)?

Are you in favour of taxpayer paid nose jobs not for respiratory reasons, but just because the nose is considered ugly by the individual and there is psychological suffering involved for him?

If liposuction is a medically acknowledged cure for obesity and they fall within the guidelines to qualify for receiving taxpayer assistance then sure.

No, not for the cosmetic surgery


by coordi P

If liposuction is a medically acknowledged cure for obesity and they fall within the guidelines to qualify for receiving taxpayer assistance then sure.

No, not for the cosmetic surgery

so your answer is that you would defer to "experts" opinion.

I very very strongly disagree.

I think that the people directly earning money from a political decision are the last people in the country you should ask about the validity of that political decision.

you don't ask farmers about how much they need government help do you?


by Luciom P

so your answer is that you would defer to "experts" opinion.

I very very strongly disagree.

I think that the people directly earning money from a political decision are the last people in the country you should ask about the validity of that political decision.

you don't ask farmers about how much they need government help do you?

Who are these expert medical folks ? Psychiatrists and Psychiatrists?


by lozen P

Who are these expert medical folks ? Psychiatrists and Psychiatrists?

Whatever problem you might have, they've got a chemical for you.


by Trolly McTrollson P

That's the standard, medically accepted term. It's not at all loaded language on par with calling a normal medical procedure a "mutilation."


You don't think that the people that provide this care have an interest in making it sound as positive as possible?


by Didace P

You don't think that the people that provide this care have an interest in making it sound as positive as possible?

no doctors, even if they collectively failed as much as possible, beyond any reasonable expectation, proving most of them are completely devoid of any moral, with COVID, still get a free pass about self interest as a lobby for some reason.

even if, I repeat, they proved beyond reasonable doubt to be among the worst lobbies in western society by a large margin.

we used to hate lawyers in the 80s, we should really change the target today toward the real bad guys


by Luciom P

so your answer is that you would defer to "experts" opinion.

I very very strongly disagree.

I think that the people directly earning money from a political decision are the last people in the country you should ask about the validity of that political decision.

you don't ask farmers about how much they need government help do you?

Pretty sure we do exactly that with Agriculture subsidies


by Didace P

You don't think that the people that provide this care have an interest in making it sound as positive as possible?

God forbid.

I don't see any compelling reason why we shouldn't use the standard terminology that practicing medical professionals use. I"m not sure why it makes you defensive.


Well I dunno if you've noticed but Doctors are now evil according to some of the posters in this thread.

It must be exhausting constantly convincing ones self that experts are all evil morons endlessly lying to the public about anything and everything.


by Trolly McTrollson P

God forbid.

I don't see any compelling reason why we shouldn't use the standard terminology that practicing medical professionals use. I"m not sure why it makes you defensive.

because they just invented it and we have no duty to defer to their recent inventions as if they were the truth.

and also because doctors in other first world countries profoundly disagree with some or many of the ideas that are currently the norm in american medical practice wrt "gender care", meaning it is not something scientifical (otherwise all physicians everywhere will be on board) rather a very political topic


by Luciom P

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and also because doctors in other first world countries profoundly disagree with some or many of the ideas that are currently the norm in american medical practice wrt "gender care", meaning it is not something scientifical (otherwise all physicians everywhere will be on board) rather a very political topic

Yeah that isn't how science works in the slightest


by coordi P

Well I dunno if you've noticed but Doctors are now evil according to some of the posters in this thread.

It must be exhausting constantly convincing ones self that experts are all evil morons endlessly lying to the public about anything and everything.

doctors in the USA are evil since they lobbied against other doctors immigrations, thus creating the conditions (among other things) for the highest medical care costs worldwide, higher than in places with higher per Capita GDP.

that a Canadian (or British or Irish or German or Italian and so on) certified doctor can't come to the USA and practice immediately no question asked Is a disgrace caused entirely by the medical lobby, which is objectively evil b doing that.

After you ascertain a group is deeply evil and acts strongly against the interest of society, for it's own self interest, then the burden of proof moves to the other side.

Given their proven, deep, disgusting evil (wrt lobbying against immigration of Doctors from other countries), everything they do as a group has to be seen as inherently tainted by financial interests and they lost the benefit of doubt in all matters.


by Luciom P

so your answer is that you would defer to "experts" opinion.

I very very strongly disagree.

I think that the people directly earning money from a political decision are the last people in the country you should ask about the validity of that political decision.

you don't ask farmers about how much they need government help do you?

So whose opinion do you defer to instead, the unwashed masses or the politicians?


by coordi P

Yeah that isn't how science works in the slightest

how does it work, what's the proper "sciebtifical" practice if people who dedicated their entire life about a subject deeply disagree with each other.

more generally, what's science everytime there is a deep disagreement among scientists?


by jjjou812 P

So whose opinion do you defer to instead, the unwashed masses or the politicians?

I try to remove as many things as possible from collective violent decision making, like a lot of them, like most of them, and still defer to the masses to the very few things we can't remove from collective decision making, as the lesser evil.

but 90-95% of things shouldn't be collectively decided by anyone, just let every adult do the **** he wants , without any collective money being involved


by Luciom P

doctors in the USA are evil since they lobbied against other doctors immigrations, thus creating the conditions (among other things) for the highest medical care costs worldwide, higher than in places with higher per Capita GDP.

that a Canadian (or British or Irish or German or Italian and so on) certified doctor can't come to the USA and practice immediately no question asked Is a disgrace caused entirely by the medical lobby, which is obje

This is a pretty strange rant about the federal govt as it is actually the states that individually license doctor to practice medicine within their borders. So the restrictions against foreign doctors occurs at the state, not federal level. Which is exactly what you were rallying for with regards to the EPA and FDA in another thread.

by Luciom P

And then everyone can actually live in a place where the values underpinning government are as close as their own as possible which is what the American dream has always been about. Centralization of Power denies that, state rights allowing incredible difference among the 50 states allow more variance, so more people can find a place more similar to their preferences.

Oregonians (or people moving to Oregon) can regulate every aspect of their


and it's the doctors in every single state lobbying for that, so which part of "they act against societal interest for their financial interest so they should never be trusted at all in any topic where they gain" is false?


by coordi P

Yeah that isn't how science works in the slightest

you should read that article i shared regarding the media's influence on lobotomies, it's very eye opening


by rickroll P

you should read that article i shared regarding the media's influence on lobotomies, it's very eye opening

or this


https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23040706...


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