The costs of trans visibility

The costs of trans visibility

Yesterday, Dylan Mulvaney broke her silence: https://www.tiktok.com/@dylanmulvaney/vi....

For context, this is a trans influencer who built a 10 million strong following on TikTok. She took a brand deal with budweiser to post an ad on an instagram, and the anti-trans right went absolutely ballistic, calling for a boycott, condemning the company, and to some perhaps unknowable degree it influenced that Budweiser sales dropped by a 1/4 and

. Dylan speaks more personally about the effect of the hatred on her.

What strikes me about this story is that it is just about visibility. This isn't inclusion in sports or gender-affirming care for minors, it was just that a trans person was visible. This wasn't even visibility in a TV commerical that a poor right-winger is forced to see, it was an ad on her own instagram page. We're all in our own social media algorithm influenced bubbles, but from my vantage point it really has seemed that in the last year or so things have just gotten worse for trans people and the backlash to even minor visibility is growing.

We need to do better.

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30 June 2023 at 04:48 PM
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by coordi P

Whats this obsession with autism and LGBTQ? Its like you guys think that having autism makes someone a ****** who can no longer function.

I have autism. My brother has autism. Its a wide and varied spectrum.

Most autistic people are just slightly socially awkward, they aren't rain man.

I'd guess like 80% of the regs here are probably somewhere on the spectrum.


by jjjou812 P

What current regulations control these examples that make you believe that I believe in no regulations?

I'm not challenging you, I'm just trying to discuss something.

Ok, so someone besides a patient and their doctor have input on what is available for treatment. Should doctors be allow to prescribe a drug for any use once it's approved for a specific use? I'm of two minds on this. Of course they should, but then what about the opiate situation. There's got to be some limit. I think that's the question here - where's the line and should that line ever be moved?


by Didace P

I'm just trying to discuss something.

he has never once discussed anything - only dictates from up on high that you are a stupid bigot if you don't know the truth like he does - best put on ignore, he contributes absolutely nothing of any value and is only here to lay out insults and tell people they are wrong


by coordi P

Whats this obsession with autism and LGBTQ? Its like you guys think that having autism makes someone a ****** who can no longer function.

I have autism. My brother has autism. Its a wide and varied spectrum.

Most autistic people are just slightly socially awkward, they aren't rain man.

Correct. And there is also no reason to think they should suffer from gender dysphoria.

Yet autistic girls especially are far more likely to be diagnosed with GD, as well as less substantiated things (to put it charitably) like non binary.

Here is a story from the notorious right wing propaganda outlet, NPR.

https://www.npr.org/2023/01/15/114931866...


by ES2 P

Correct. And there is also no reason to think they should suffer from gender dysphoria.

Yet autistic girls especially are far more likely to be diagnosed with GD, as well as less substantiated things (to put it charitably) like non binary.

Here is a story from the notorious right wing propaganda outlet, NPR.

https://www.npr.org/2023/01/15/114931866...

I'm still not wrapping my head around why diagnosed neurodivergence having a higher chance of being non-binary is shocking to you.

Do you know what neurodivergence means?


by coordi P

I'm still not wrapping my head around why diagnosed neurodivergence having a higher chance of being non-binary is shocking to you.

Do you know what neurodivergence means?

Careful with these takes there are people who have been banned for talking like that


by Luciom P

Careful with these takes there are people who have been banned for talking like that

There is a difference between calling someone mentally ill and talking about brain chemistry deltas in a population of 8 billion

A gender neutral asexual person isn't anything except is


Are those of you digging your heels in unwilling to consider the possibility that gender affirmation as a solution has been built on a foundation of propaganda? Is that a pill too bitter to swallow?

Are you still placing new bets that gender affirmation will hold up or is your posture about rationalizing your past bets?

There needs to be a grace period for people to wrap their heads around the amount of lying that has taken place in support of gender affirming care, but tolerance will be short lived if people are still placing bets on exposed lying.


by craig1120 P

Are those of you digging your heels in unwilling to consider the possibility that gender affirmation as a solution has been built on a foundation of propaganda? Is that a pill too bitter to swallow?

Are you still placing new bets that gender affirmation will hold up or is your posture about rationalizing your past bets?

There needs to be a grace period for people to wrap their heads around the amount of lying that has taken place in support o

Ultimately it doesn't matter if the current treatments are considered archaic in the future. That is the path to progress.

The solution isn't to write them off as crazy, or a fad, or marxist, or whatever it is you guys want to write them off as. They deserve treatment and care and to be taken serious.

You are willing to listen to anyone except the LGBTQ people themselves.

And honestly, I am in an unalienable stance. I literally can't be wrong here. Treat them like humans, with respect and empathy. EZ Game


by coordi P

Ultimately it doesn't matter if the current treatments are considered archaic in the future. That is the path to progress.

The solution isn't to write them off as crazy, or a fad, or marxist, or whatever it is you guys want to write them off as. They deserve treatment and care and to be taken serious.

You are willing to listen to anyone except the LGBTQ people themselves.

And honestly, I am in an unalienable stance. I literally can't be wro

So it’s something like, “Maybe it’s true that the people I labeled as transphobes were right about the propaganda, but I care more about the marginalized than they do, so I’m still good and they’re still bad, and that’s the truth which ultimately matters.”


by coordi P

I literally can't be wrong here.

You are, in fact, wrong to imagine this.


Are people who claim puberty blockers don't cause long term effect talking strictly from a physiological standpoint, or also from the perspective of the kid who spent his/her formative preteen years living a very different existence than everyone else, and probably feeling like a weirdo?

There are no long term physical side effects of me eating all of my meals without using utensils, but there are definitely consequences.


by craig1120 P

Are those of you digging your heels in unwilling to consider the possibility that gender affirmation as a solution has been built on a foundation of propaganda?

That is what the Cass Review has found. The explosion in GIDS referrals -- mainly teenage girls, where the previous much smaller cohort was pre-teen boys -- was obviously a social contagion manipulated by ideologically motivated clinicians and 'social workers' exploiting the vulnerable young, who were disproportionately autistic or in-care and almost always simply gay and having trouble adjusting to it. It was already known that these gender issues resolve themselves during puberty if the patient is left alone to work things out. 'Puberty blockers' are immediately and irreversibly harmful, are not trialled or approved for that purpose, and should not be prescribed. The clinicians who prescribed them were oddballs and seriously out of order. 'Affirmation-only' was obviously mad and bad. And Dr Cass does not confine herself to under-17s. She suggests that 17-25s should not be processed in 'adult gender clinics' either. (Human brain development is not complete till age 25.)

It's over. The US, with its commercial healthcare system, may lag, until the danger of litigation becomes fully apparent, but it's over.


by Inso0 P

Are people who claim puberty blockers don't cause long term effect talking strictly from a physiological standpoint, or also from the perspective of the kid who spent his/her formative preteen years living a very different existence than everyone else, and probably feeling like a weirdo?

There are no long term physical side effects of me eating all of my meals without using utensils, but there are definitely consequences.

Try Ethiopian food sometime.


by coordi P

Treat them like humans, with respect and empathy. EZ Game

As with everything, that's the trick.


by Luckbox Inc P

Try Ethiopian food sometime.

I should probably clarify that I don't actually do that, and am aware that many people in the world have no choice but to eat with their fingers.

An American teenager taking their first girlfriend out to Olive Garden is going to be in for an awkward time when that bowl of Zuppa and their Tour of Italy shows up, though.


by Didace P

As with everything, that's the trick.

Affirmation is the beginning of the solution, but these kids need to be affirmed as a human being with potential due to having a soul. Not affirmation of a gender identity. Ok, I’m done.


by coordi P

Ultimately it doesn't matter if the current treatments are considered archaic in the future. That is the path to progress.

The solution isn't to write them off as crazy, or a fad, or marxist, or whatever it is you guys want to write them off as. They deserve treatment and care and to be taken serious.

You are willing to listen to anyone except the LGBTQ people themselves.

And honestly, I am in an unalienable stance. I literally can't be wro

Obviously if there is 7x autistic people and astronomical suicide rates that exceed other rainbow groups, prisoners, minorities, (iirc slaves) etc it's not some factoid but something notable worth thorough investigation

As far this post goes, explain how trans differs from how you should treat someone with anorexia


by Didace P

I'm not challenging you, I'm just trying to discuss something.

Ok, so someone besides a patient and their doctor have input on what is available for treatment. Should doctors be allow to prescribe a drug for any use once it's approved for a specific use? I'm of two minds on this. Of course they should, but then what about the opiate situation. There's got to be some limit. I think that's the question here - where's the line and should that

Then it’s strange that you don’t ever identify any regulations despite my repeated requests. I can’t think of very many areas we regulate medical procedures or research out of existence other than stem cell research, marijuana as a medicine and abortion.


by Inso0 P

Are people who claim puberty blockers don't cause long term effect talking strictly from a physiological standpoint, or also from the perspective of the kid who spent his/her formative preteen years living a very different existence than everyone else, and probably feeling like a weirdo?

There are no long term physical side effects of me eating all of my meals without using utensils, but there are definitely consequences.

My understanding is that they have no idea what the long term effects are.

Iirc Sabine Hossenfeilder discusses it in her video about some of the bogus studies that have been published.


Somehow I don’t believe you. After 50 years, we don’t know the long term effects or you don’t know?

Two minutes of google work:

While puberty blockers have been scrutinized by some due to their use in caring for transgender children, these drugs have been in use since the 1980s and are overwhelmingly safe if used appropriately. Side effects such as bone health risks typically only occur with prolonged use past the age of puberty.Jan 16, 2023

Puberty Blockers: What You Should Know | Cedars-Sinai

Cedars-Sinai


by jjjou812 P

Somehow I don’t believe you. After 50 years, we don’t know the long term effects or you don’t know?

Two minutes of google work:

While puberty blockers have been scrutinized by some due to their use in caring for transgender children, these drugs have been in use since the 1980s and are overwhelmingly safe if used appropriately. Side effects such as bone health risks typically only occur with prolonged use past the age of puberty.Jan 16, 2023

He was asking about the psychological effects.

2 mins of Google revealed...

Doctors who promote the practice did a study finding that the effects were positive. Later, that there was no effect.

An independent researcher reviewed their data and found the results were mixed, but slightly more likely to be negative.

https://www.bbc.com/news/health-66842352

Prof Susan McPherson, from the University of Essex, and David Freedman, a retired social scientist, have since re-analysed the data. They instead looked at the individual trajectories of each of the young people in the early intervention study.

They found, after 12 months of puberty blocker injections - 34% of the children had reliably deteriorated, 29% had reliably improved, and 37% showed no change, according to their self-reported answers.

They only reviewed 44 cases, so probably none of it means much of anything.

I'm pretty skeptical of the claims that there are no physical effects as well, but if there are good studies by objective researchers, I'll accept them.


by coordi P

Ultimately it doesn't matter if the current treatments are considered archaic in the future. That is the path to progress.

The solution isn't to write them off as crazy, or a fad, or marxist, or whatever it is you guys want to write them off as. They deserve treatment and care and to be taken serious.

You are willing to listen to anyone except the LGBTQ people themselves.

And honestly, I am in an unalienable stance. I literally can't be wro

There are a lot of trans people fully against minor transitioning but they aren't radical leftists so they have far less exposure.

There are also trans people against mtf in sports, and trans people who don't think men can get pregnant or that a trans woman is a woman.

Oh and also, LGB have nothing special to talk about T and their voice is worth the same as everyone else, and it's time we stop abusing that ****ing meaningless letter soup as it meant anything


Jfc jiju is using studies proving puberty blockers are fine to use to have puberty come at the appropriate time, to justify using puberty blockers to delay puberty un-naturally .

Cordii is justifying lobotomy of the schizophrenic because otherwise we stop progress


No your use of the terms "at an appropriate time" and "unnaturally" make no sense to me. As I understand it, the causes of precocious puberty are unknown but that the brain activates the glands earlier for some kids. The symptoms seem mostly emotional and behavioral based.

So, I don't see how an early puberty is an unnatural puberty. As far as I know, delaying an early natural puberty isn't any different, or has any different risks, than delaying a later occurring puberty. Of course if you have evidence to the contrary, let's see it

But banning puberty blockers is needed to stop gender identity care because they are gateway drugs.

I think the Internet finally broke Luciom because his last two posts are senseless ramblings.


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